We all know the benefits of networking. Building relationships gaining knowledge about a career field finding a champion who will put your resume at the top of the pile and so much more. Networking is essential to a successful career but when you have someone looking for advice from someone with more experience it adds a power dynamic that can be difficult to navigate. Whether you are a current student, a new student, a new graduate or a seasoned alum we all need to practice safe networking and speak up when something doesn’t feel right. Here are six tips from the Hiatt Career Center to help you do just that.
One – meet in a public place. Suggest meeting at a coffee shop instead of in someone’s office. If you’re looking for a neutral place to meet consider reserving a spot at the Hiatt Career Center.
Two – use your own transportation instead of accepting a ride use your own car or public transportation so you are in control of the situation, including when you want to leave.
Three – get a second opinion. Networking can lead to some major aha moments, ones that make you reach out the course of your career but think twice before making a major decision based on a conversation with just one person. Talk to others to confirm that this is industry truth or just personal opinion.
Four – leave alcohol out of it. Drinking can complicate any situation and cocktail networking receptions are no exception. Keep it professional and use alcohol in moderation or not at all when networking.
Five – trust your gut. Most of the time you’ll know right away if something doesn’t feel right. If this happens your first priority should be to get out of the situation to avoid any escalation. So if you’re feeling sick or you have another meeting and simply quickly excuse yourself.
Six – tell someone if you have a meeting with a new contact. Tell us someone you trust where you’re going and be sure to let someone know if the meeting goes south. The counselors at the Hiatt Career Center can also help you discuss your next steps. So remember these six tips to keep yourself safe while networking and consider sharing them with a friend and then familiarize yourself with other campus and community resources.